How would allowing gays to marry affect your life?

Here’s a post from Legal Insurrection, a prominent law blog.


King & Spalding has withdrawn from representing the House of Representatives with regard to the Defense of Marriage Act.  King & Spalding was hired after the Obama administration abruptly — and disingenuously — changed its legal position recently.

The attempts to intimidate, both politically and sometimes physically, supporters of traditional marriage are nothing new.

The strategy is to define the traditional marriage view as bigotry on par with racism.  Once you accept that premise, then everything else follows and is justified.  Even expressing a legal view that there is no federal constitutional right to same sex marriage — a view expressed under oath by Elena Kagan — now constitutes hate speech.

There were numerous boycotts of businesses owned by people who supported Prop. 8 in California, including a boycott organized by an association of law professors.

Taking it one step further, there was a widespread campaign to demonize and boycott Mormon-owned businesses in the wake of Prop. 8 in California…

[…]Now the intimidation has moved beyond political supporters of Prop. 8 and Mormons, and into an attempt to deprive pro-traditional marriage groups of their counsel of choice.  As Jennifer Rubin points out (via John Hinderaker), the attempt to intimidate lawyers into not representing pro-traditional marriage clients is part of a deliberate strategy, not a haphazard reaction.

[…]Would such lawyers and staff now be afraid to express their views on the subject, fearing a backlash against their individual careers much as King & Spaulding feared a backlash?  If representing the pro-traditional marriage view is unacceptable for the firm, would there be a hostile work environment for such people?

Dennis Prager wrote more about how same-sex marriage affects society back in 2008.


Outside of the privacy of their homes, young girls will be discouraged from imagining one day marrying their prince charming — to do so would be declared “heterosexist,” morally equivalent to racist. Rather, they will be told to imagine a prince or a princess. Schoolbooks will not be allowed to describe marriage in male-female ways alone. Little girls will be asked by other girls and by teachers if they want one day to marry a man or a woman.

The sexual confusion that same-sex marriage will create among young people is not fully measurable. Suffice it to say that, contrary to the sexual know-nothings who believe that sexual orientation is fixed from birth and permanent, the fact is that sexual orientation is more of a continuum that ranges from exclusive heterosexuality to exclusive homosexuality. Much of humanity — especially females — can enjoy homosexual sex. It is up to society to channel polymorphous human sexuality into an exclusively heterosexual direction — until now, accomplished through marriage. But that of course is “heterosexism,” a bigoted preference for man-woman erotic love, and therefore to be extirpated from society.

Any advocacy of man-woman marriage alone will be regarded morally as hate speech, and shortly thereafter it will be deemed so in law.

Companies that advertise engagement rings will have to show a man putting a ring on a man’s finger — if they show only women fingers, they will be boycotted just as a company having racist ads would be now.

Films that only show man-woman married couples will be regarded as antisocial and as morally irresponsible as films that show people smoking have become.

Traditional Jews and Christians — i.e. those who believe in a divine scripture — will be marginalized. Already Catholic groups in Massachusetts have abandoned adoption work since they will only allow a child to be adopted by a married couple as the Bible defines it — a man and a woman.

Anyone who advocates marriage between a man and a woman will be morally regarded the same as racist. And soon it will be a hate crime.

Indeed — and this is the ultimate goal of many of the same-sex marriage activists — the terms “male” and “female,” “man” and “woman” will gradually lose their significance. They already are. On the intellectual and cultural left, “male” and “female” are deemed social constructs that have little meaning. That is why same-sex marriage advocates argue that children have no need for both a mother and a father — the sexes are interchangeable. Whatever a father can do a second mother can do. Whatever a mother can do, a second father can do. Genitalia are the only real differences between the sexes, and even they can be switched at will.

And what will happen after divorce — which presumably will occur at the same rates as heterosexual divorce? A boy raised by two lesbian mothers who divorce and remarry will then have four mothers and no father.

We have entered something beyond Huxley’s “Brave New World.”… Our children and their children will pay the price.

Check out this vandalism at a Catholic church by supporters of same-sex marriage. The vandalism says “where is the love?” I don’t think that the vandals showed much love for those who disagree with same-sex marriage, though. And sometimes the consequences for disagreement can be much worse than vandalism.  It can mean legal consequences, sensitivity indoctrination, vandalism, or even violence. What’s sad is that the well-meaning young leftists, who think what they are doing is compassionate, are actually encouraging this coercion.

How would allowing gays to marry affect your life?

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7 thoughts on “How would allowing gays to marry affect your life?”

  1. Well, it would affect my life by adversely affecting the society I live in. But on a more personal level, by giving state sanction to same-sex unions, Christians would suffer even more punishment for disagreeing with it than they do now when they disagree with non-sanctioned unions or homosexuality in general, because once you legalize same-sex faux marriage you have the full weight of the law against those who disagree.

    So, we have seen how a wedding photographer was punished financially (ended up costing $6000) and forced to attend “diversity” training for refusing to photograph a wedding ceremony when SSM was illegal! So if I am asked to play at at SS wedding ceremony and I decline, I can expect to suffer criminal prosecution for “discrimination.”

    We have already seen what happens in Canada and Europe to those who have dared speak against homosexuality which had state sanction!


    1. Guys, if some of your comments are not showing up, it’s because I am being extra careful because of Obama’s law banning speech on controversial topics – the one he tacked onto the defense appropriations bill a while back.


  2. The next question is, “How does allowing polygamists to marry affect your life”? If three people are deeply in love what right do you have to tell them they can’t marry? You say society demands that marriage only be between two people, but that’s just your tradition etc….You see where this road leads.


  3. I really don’t see what all the fuss is about gay marriage. I simply do not see how two gay people marrying is any threat to my wife and I at all. Do gay people who marry suddenly pick up arms and turn violent? I could care less. It does not affect me. It is none of my business and I don’t see how it is yours. Who am I to tell to people who love each other that they may not marry? No more do I have the right to tell them who to marry than you have the right to tell anyone what god they may or may not believe in. Isn’t this the land of the free and home of the brave? I think people should be brave and let people be free and pursue their own happiness and worry about more important issues than if two gay people can register their lives as married.


    1. Tell me why your comment doesn’t support the redefinition of marriage to mean polygamy and pedophilia as well. I don’t see anything in your reasoning that rules these out, so you must also support them. It’s already happening:

      Do you think that these are good for children? With respect to SSM, do you think that children do well without a mother and a father? We have research that shows that they don’t:

      Do you care about children? Do you care about research? Or do you just push for policies based on your feelings, without really thinking them through? We made that mistake once before with no-fault divorce, let’s not make it again.


      1. Although I may not agree with polygamy, it is again, non of my business. Isn’t this a free country any more? What does freedom mean to you? What does the “pursuit of happiness mean.” And I am only talking about two gay people being able to marry if that is what they want. I am not talking about legalizing the horrors of incest or pedophelia. That would never, ever pass! Be real about that.

        So you mean to tell me that if a gay couple where your neighbors, it would affect you only if they went and got married.? What if you did not know they were married? No effect right?

        I have not seen enough research to conclude that children raised by a gay couple fare worse than children raised the traditional way. Do children of gay couples have more interventions by child protective services than children of traditional parents? If a child is neglected and or abused or both that is cause for concern, not who is loving the child.

        Gay marriage does not threaten me or my children. America is a free country where people should be free to love and marry who they want (not talking about incest or ped.). Good things come out of love and blocking some one desire to make a legal committent via marriage is not very kind and it is non of your business. You know maybe one day a person who was raised by a gay parent or two may help you…they may be a fireman/woman, a doctor, a lawyer, a police or a teacher, and I hope you will not tell them that they did not grow up right being raised by a homosexual parent/s. You worry to much in my opinion. Eventually it will be legalized here. Just wait and see.


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