Story from the National Post. (H/T Andrew)
Excerpt:
A few suggestions for anxious parents who typically hover on the edge of the playground with a first aid kit: Let your child lick a 9-volt battery, just to see what happens. Encourage them to try to drive a nail. And by all means, let them play with fire.
These are among the activities extolled in a new book entitled 50 Dangerous Things (You Should Let Your Children Do), the latest in a growing backlash against hyper-parents who try to insulate their children against every scrape, perceived threat and potential disappointment. Underlying this less-is-more parenting philosophy is a belief that today’s bubble-wrapped children are missing out on the way childhood used to be. The Dangerous Book for Boys and The Daring Book for Girls became sensations by teaching the video-game generation such potentially perilous skills as building a snow fort or using a bow and arrow.
[…]The book’s title is “deliberately provocative,” he says, and it is meant as both a guidebook for fretful parents who want to loosen up and a “call to action for over-protected children,” with instructions on safe ways to experiment with dangerous things.
“We create a false impression in our minds that children are in peril all the time and everywhere, when in fact, according to the most recent studies, this is the safest time in history for children,” he said. “There couldn’t be a better time to be running around outside playing.”
If I ever got married, I wonder what my wife would think of me encouraging all our children to do dangerous things? I’ve heard that wives also don’t like it when fathers try to get their children to adhere to moral rules, either (because of moral judgments and sanctions, you know). But I think danger and moral rules are good for children, in the long run. I don’t want a cowardly moral relativist for a child.
Anybody here have the Dangerous Book for Boys? Or the Daring Book for Girls?
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Hah, cowardly moral-relativists. That about sums things up today.
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I actually got my nephew this book last year. The title sounds crazy, but the book’s just promoting kids to get up, turn off the video games and learn, be active… be kids!
As for the “wives don’t like it when fathers try to get their children to adhere to moral rules, either…”, what on earth are you talking about, Wintery? Not all of us are like that. I’m glad my husband will be instilling morals in to our kids (um, when we have them,lol). He already does so with my nephews. Actually, I have to do that with my nephews, too. The eight year old got a spanking (I know, so un-PC of me) from me on Tuesday for using vulgarities and speaking ungentlemanly to a little girl. I don’t intend to watch any children in my family grow into little disrespectful monsters!
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Ha! Not everyone is like you, though. Your husband is spoiled, spoiled, spoiled.
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I encourage my kids to take risks like jumping off the couch, stairs, etc. within reason. As a result they have learned to develop a healthy respect for the limits of their abilities as well as better balance, coordination and confidence.
My wife gets nervous and we constantly debate how far is too far but I believe thats really the woman’s job to be overly cautious where it is the man’s job to instill a sense of adventure and “wildness”.
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