One of the teachings about courts that we find in the Bible is that the courts are not supposed to be biased. The passage in question is Leviticus 19:15. Unfortunately, our current society doesn’t really respect fairness in the courts, at least for men. Previously, I blogged a study that showed that sentences for men are 63% longer than for women. But there’s more unfairness, so let’s look at it.
First, let’s review the Bible verse – Leviticus 19:15:
You shall do no injustice in court. You shall not be partial to the poor or defer to the great, but in righteousness shall you judge your neighbor.
Now consider this article from the Scottish newspaper The Herald:
A leading lawyer has warned that men accused of rape or serious sexual assault may not receive a fair trial because of long established rules over what evidence is admissible in court.
[…]”We have reached the stage where the victim has lied about things and the court has not allowed the defence to put that before the jury.
“How can it be said that someone has had a fair trial when it’s been proved that the complainer lied about something important in the course of the inquiry and that was not allowed to be introduced as evidence?” he told The Herald.
“There are serious concerns that people are not getting a fair trial when they are not being given the opportunity to provide evidence which might support their innocence”.
[…]”Every day you were hearing examples of people saying they thought a piece of evidence was relevant but the judge has ruled that it would not be allowed.
“Defendants would be going around with messages, photographs, things they thought would prove them to be innocent and the judges would not allow them to tell the jury about those pieces of exculpatory evidence.”
In one of the examples in the article, there was CCTV video showing that the woman had led the man into the sex, but that evidence could not be used in court as part of the man’s defense.
Now, what lessons do men take away from cases of bias against men like this one? Well, men learn about three things.
First, men learn that society doesn’t care whether men are innocent of guilty of charges made by women – they just want men punished. “Believe all women”. And remember, false accusations can be made against men who have not even met the alleged victim. Second, men learn to keep well clear of the courts, because they’ve learned that the courts treat men much more harshly than women, as the sentencing study shows. And thirdly, Christian men have learned not to expect any sort of help from Christian counselors, Christian pastors, and even from pro-marriage / pro-child advocates. I have personally seen a married couple that runs a “pro-family” ministry urging a woman to divorce her husband because he did not make enough money to pay for her frivolous spending. And yes, the couple had young children who became fatherless as a result.
Whenever I tell social conservatives about the effect that this bias against men is having on men’s willingness to engage with women (romantically, professionally, etc.), they go silent. Let me give you an example of this.
I was having a discussion with a woman who writes about marriage and family. I told her “did you know that women initiate 70% of divorces, and almost all of those are not for reasons that the Bible would condone”. Her reply was “that’s because women have emotional needs, so the divorce is justified”. I agree that women have emotional needs, and that husbands have a responsibility to care for their wives’ needs. That’s why I tell people that women are responsible for vetting men for this ability prior to marrying. But the woman I was talking to did not think that women should have to test men, because women are entitled to these behaviors regardless of her own choice of man. I also brought up the higher rate of divorce for lesbian women, and asked her which man was responsible for this. She just went silent.
So, this is the problem. The conviction that a woman is entitled to a man’s protection and provision regardless of any risk to the man is so widespread that no evidence can cause them to question it. Marriage is not going to be seen as attractive to men if the response to their evidence-based concerns is silence.