Respectful dialog between Dr. Stephen C. Meyer and Saleem Ali

In the post below, please find the video and summary of a fairly recent dialog between my number one favorite Christian scholar, Dr. Stephen C. Meyer and Dr. Saleem Ali. The summary is not snarky, because this was a great respectful dialog!

Here is the video:

Here is the short summary:

Saleem Ali and Stephen Meyer debate the origins of order in nature on “Unbelievable.” Ali, an environmental planner with a PhD from MIT, argues in Earthly Order that natural laws and human constructs shape sustainability, remaining agnostic about a designer. Meyer, a Cambridge PhD and Discovery Institute scholar, asserts in The Return of the God Hypothesis that life’s specified complexity, cosmic fine-tuning, and the universe’s beginning suggest an intelligent design. They explore self-organization versus top-down causation, the nature of physical laws, and agency’s role, agreeing on order’s reality and determinism’s limits, but differing on its source—Ali favoring empirical humility, Meyer theistic inference.

And here is the long summary:

The conversation begins with Saleem Ali introducing his book, Earthly Order: How Natural Laws Define Human Life, published by Oxford University Press. Ali, chair of the Department of Geography and Spatial Sciences at the University of Delaware, frames his work as a quest to understand how order underpins a sustainable future. His intellectual journey traces back to his PhD at MIT, where he engaged with Stephen Jay Gould, whose concept of science and religion as “non-overlapping magisteria” sparked Ali’s interest in order’s functionality. Trained as an environmental planner, Ali seeks solutions-oriented insights, aiming to bridge natural laws with human constructs like economics and society. He spent nearly two decades refining this interdisciplinary approach, resulting in a book that spans physics, chemistry, biology, and social systems. Ali distinguishes between two Greek concepts of order: cosmos (natural order inherent in the universe) and taxis (constructed order imposed by humans). He illustrates this duality with examples—biomimicry in city planning reflects natural order beneficially, while stereotypes show constructed order gone awry. For Ali, order is both intrinsic to nature (e.g., physical laws) and a human projection, but he remains agnostic about whether it demands an explanation beyond material reality, emphasizing humility given empirical limits.

Stephen Meyer, from the Discovery Institute, counters with a perspective rooted in his book, The Return of the God Hypothesis. With a background in physics, earth science, and philosophy of science (PhD from Cambridge), Meyer argues that certain orders, particularly in biology, suggest a designing intelligence. He highlights three key evidences: the universe’s beginning, its fine-tuning, and the informational complexity of life, which he believes point to theism over materialism or pantheism. Meyer differentiates between repetitive order—like the crystalline structure of salt (NaCl), reducible to simple physical laws—and specified complexity, such as the genetic code in DNA. The latter, he asserts, involves a precise arrangement of parts for function, akin to software or language, and is not derivable from physics or chemistry alone. Drawing on historical science, he cites Kepler’s view that nature’s intelligibility reflects a rational creator, a belief that fueled the scientific revolution’s blend of confidence in discovery and rigorous testing against human fallibility. Meyer’s first book, Signature in the Cell, took nearly two decades to complete, mirroring Ali’s timeline, and argues that life’s digital code implies agency—an intelligence behind its origin.

Their discussion pivots to the origin of life, revealing a central tension. Meyer critiques bottom-up, self-organizational models proposed by scientists like Stuart Kaufman and Manfred Eigen. He acknowledges these models explain simple patterns—like vortices or crystals—but argues they fall short of accounting for specified complexity. For instance, Kaufman’s metabolic scenarios presuppose highly specific molecular arrangements, begging the question of their origin, while Eigen’s hypercycles assume pre-existing RNA and enzymes. Meyer bolsters this with experimental evidence: protein folds, essential for biological function, are rare and isolated in sequence space, as shown by Douglas Axe and Dan Toffik’s research. Modifying a stable fold risks losing function, suggesting new folds require external information—evidence, he claims, of top-down design. Ali responds by noting the contested nature of origin-of-life research. He references evolving theories—e.g., the shift from primordial soup to RNA world, and emerging ideas about metals like aluminum, abundant yet rejected by life for bioenergetic reasons. Citing Frances Arnold’s Nobel Prize-winning work on enzyme design, Ali argues that natural processes are “messier” than a neat top-down model implies, with redundancy and trial-and-error playing roles. He urges caution against over-interpreting patterns as deterministic causality, whether from intelligent design or speculative physics like string theory.

The nature of physical laws emerges as another focal point. Meyer views laws as descriptive rather than explanatory, critiquing the materialistic tendency to reify them as causes. He uses Newton’s gravity—consistent with both an apple falling and a rocket flying—to illustrate that laws permit many configurations without specifying them. At the fundamental level (e.g., gravitation, electromagnetism), laws describe recurring phenomena with precision, but their cause remains mysterious absent a deeper principle. Meyer proposes a theistic view: laws reflect God’s sustaining action, a medieval concept of potentia ordinata (ordinary power), offering a philosophical alternative to Hume’s skepticism (laws as mental habits) or positivist causation. Ali agrees that cosmos-type order exists—evident in constants like the fine-structure constant or Martin Rees’ “six numbers” defining a Goldilocks universe. However, his focus is practical: how do these laws, as constraints, inform environmental planning? In Earthly Order, he explores planetary boundaries and tipping points, noting humans can temporarily override natural limits (e.g., through technology), but long-term consequences enforce equilibrium. Ali donates his royalties to science literacy, underscoring his goal of fostering environmental awareness.

Consciousness and agency bridge their perspectives. Meyer sees life’s informational order as hinting at mind’s cosmic role, citing origin-of-life simulations where chemists impose constraints to achieve life-relevant outcomes—imparting information that mirrors top-down causation. He suggests these experiments reflect a need for intelligence in life’s origin. Ali, while open to consciousness as an emergent property, prioritizes its utility for sustainability over metaphysical resolution. Both reject determinism—scientific or theological—for negating agency. Meyer ties this to intelligent design’s push against methodological naturalism, which excludes agency as a scientific cause, advocating for intellectual pluralism rooted in early scientists like Newton. Ali concurs, noting determinism’s pitfalls in theology (e.g., fatalistic asceticism) and science, valuing human agency to navigate complexity.

Religiously, Ali identifies as a cultural Muslim, favoring allegorical over literal interpretations of faith. He’s agnostic about a divine mind, wary of exclusionary theism but open to benign frameworks that inspire hope, echoing Churchill’s view against stripping people of meaning. Meyer, a theist, embraces pluralism as a civic virtue, citing James Madison’s Christian-influenced advocacy for tolerance. He sees agency—human or divine—as a real ontological category, enriching reality beyond reductionism. Their shared disdain for rigid determinism and appreciation for order’s mystery forge common ground, despite Meyer’s evidence-driven theism and Ali’s pragmatic agnosticism.

In sum, Ali’s Earthly Order explores order’s spectrum from cosmos to human constructs, aiming for sustainability, while Meyer’s Return of the God Hypothesis infers a designing mind from life’s complexity and cosmic fine-tuning. They converge on order’s reality and agency’s importance, diverging on its source—Ali with empirical humility, Meyer with theistic inference.

The denial of female accountability is causing the decline of marriage

Let’s look at a tweet from a conservative Christian pro-marriage activist named Katy Faust. Katy is a very conservative Christian who advocates for marriage and parenting. She recently tweeted her view that Elon Musk is a polygamist, because he is accused of having consensual recreational sex with a 26-year-old woman. Is Katy right to accuse Elon Musk of “polygamy”?

Here is her tweet.

And it says:

Elon is a modern day #polygamist- a family structure characterized by jealousy & inequality.

“Musk has never asked to see the baby, nor asked for photos of him”

St. Clair [asked] to meet “Hmm ok,” EM responds, “Well, I do have a legion of kids to make.”

And she links to this article in the New York Post, which clearly explains why this is not “polygamy”, it’s just premarital sex between an adult female and a wealthy non-Christian man.

In general, pro-marriage conservatives tell women like Ashley St. Clair two things:

  1. When a man and a woman have recreational premarital sex, only the man is to blame. The woman didn’t do anything wrong.
  2. A women should expect that premarital sex with a non-Christian man who has many babies with many other women will cause that man to convert to Christianity and marry her.

So, what happens when tall, hot, wealthy high-status bad boys like Elon Musk don’t comply with the message that pro-marriage conservatives tell young women? Well, then they ignore the woman’s own choices, and only shame and blame the man. “Why isn’t this bad man behaving like a good man?!” they cry.

This attitude that women should be free to follow their hearts, and men must be forced to pay for her choices is EVERYWHERE in our society. It’s in student loan bailouts, it’s in single mother welfare, it’s in the family courts. As I blogged previously, men receive much longer prison sentences than women for the same crimes. Men are just walking ATMs, and whenever women do something that doesn’t work, it’s ALWAYS a man’s fault, and men must ALWAYS pay the costs.

And this view is very popular. When I say popular, I think this is the majority view among Christian women and Christian pastors. They think that the main teaching of Christianity is just that men ought to transfer all their money to women after having premarital sex. That’s it. And they call this “servant leadership”. Women lead the relationship, and men just give them money,. Just like an ATM. And the entire family court system reflects this view – if a man disappoints a woman in any way, then she should just take half his stuff, and he should have to pay her alimony and child support forever. In fact, you don’t even have to get married. And you don’t even have to cohabitate. The courts will transfer the money.

How will men respond to this? Well, here is how they respond. The top 20% of the most attractive, wealthy and high status men will continue to be pursued by hordes of women like this 26-year-old woman, and these men will continue to get free sex with no commitment from these women. These men have options. They don’t need to commit to get sex. The line for them is around the block. The line is over the river and through the woods. 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of men. Far from finding non-Christian man-sluts repulsive, most women are attracted to their “dark triad” traits. And the pro-marriage conservatives just let these women follow their hearts. Then they turn to the bad men and try to shame them for being exactly what they are: BAD. “You bad man! How could you be bad?” they cry. They make the shocked pikachu face. And women watching get the message: keep chasing the tall, hot bad boys, nobody is ever going to hold us accountable for our bad choices. This is where abortion, fatherlessness and frivolous divorce come from, by the way.

Meanwhile, the bottom 80% of ordinary men, will continue to be invisible to these women… until these women hit 35-40. Then the aging women will ask “where are all the good men?” And then the pro-marriage conservatives will be right there, to point at the formerly-invisible men and say “you boring, stable men! You have to marry this single mother, who thinks she is settling for someone far beneath her because she once has sex with Elon Musk!”. And those men are going to say – and they are saying it now – “I DECLINE TO PARTICIPATE”. And then the pro-marriage conservatives will write articles to shame those men, but those men aren’t going to be shamed into becoming slaves. Not when they are just coming into their highest-earning years, and without any help from women.

So, who is responsible for the decline of marriage? Contrary to popular belief, it is not men. It is the pro-marriage conservatives. They are the ones who are clearly communicating to young women that is fine to chase premarital sex with tall, hot, wealthy, high-status bad boys. And they tell them to keep expecting these non-Christian man-sluts to suddenly change into Christians and commit, after they get premarital sex. It’s the pro-marriage conservatives who are setting false expectations of what happens after sex.

And this view that women must be left free to “follow their hearts” is everywhere in society. Women live in New York City, travel to Europe, and run up student loans for worthless non-STEM degrees. Women must have recreational sex in their 20s and 30s, delay marriage for career, and throw their fatherless kids into daycare. Or abort them. Oh yes, the pro-life conservatives only blame the tall, hot, non-Christian bad boys for abortion. Abortion is never the woman’s fault, because it was totally reasonable for her to expect the non-Christian man would convert to Christianity, marry her, give her all his money, and then transform into Prince Charming – right after she gives him recreational sex.

This is why the invisible good men are declining to date and marry. It’s the lies that pro-marriage conservatives tell young women. Lies that are reflected in our schools, workplaces, police, and courts. Good men know never to be the man that a leftover woman “settles” for, after her fun with the bad boys who she is actually attracted to. They know that they will bear the costs, when she inevitably divorces him. And that’s why the marriage rate is dropping.

What should we do about boyfriends’ and husbands’ video game playing

In this post, I will explain why, as a lifelong bachelor wealthy enough to retire at 50, I love to play historical boardgames and wargames. For me, these games are a way of refueling myself to tackle the main objective that Christian men have, which is serving God. Let’s start with some games I like, then see what purpose they serve in the lives of men who are committed to higher purposes.

Boardgames I like:

Computer wargames I like:

Let’s look at a specific example. Let’s look at “Task Force Admiral“, a game about naval warfare in WW2.

Here is the trailer:

And here is a gameplay video that got 100K views in a few days, made by Wolfpack345:

The trailer shows the action parts, but Wolfpack’s gameplay video shows what it is really like to command a carrier strike group. He shows how the game really involves managing the nerdy parts that boardgamers will love: the flight deck, the hangar deck, the Combat Information Center (CIC), etc. He monitors air and surface radar contacts, his own scout aircraft, and his combat air patrol (CAP), etc. If you have not read enough military history to know what these things are, then you’ll just sit there staring at the screen. For me, this is the kind of thing I dream about – being handed this responsibility, and knowing what to do to get results.

In order for men to do their real job, which is serving higher causes and purposes, they need to be able to refuel. And for many men, these hobbies do the work of refueling them to do their real job. Hobbies are only for a few hours a week – up to 10 hours, I would say. But they are necessary. Women should be supportive of men recharging in the ways that work for them. This allows men to return to their main job – the job that God designed men for – which is self-sacrificial service to God. (2 Tim 2:3-4 NIV)

Instead of blocking a man from his refueling activities, a woman should give him space, and even encourage him. So, my podcast partner Desert Rose is great at encouraging my refueling activities. She listens to an occasional audio book about military history, she watches an occasional war movie, she planned a birthday trip for me to tour a WW2 museum ship, and we play solo wargames co-operatively. We watch movies like “Midway” (she also read the book) and “Greyhound” and “Devotion“. She even buys me games that she thinks that I will like, like “The Troop“. It’s easy for her to support my refueling needs, because she takes care of herself very well. She agrees that the most important thing for us to do is to focus upward on serving God self-sacrificially.

You can find my reading list here, which shows the kinds of military history books that I read. I fed these books into Grok 3, along with the games I play, and the heroic actions that I remember, and asked it to explain to all of you why we should allow men to play video games. See if you think that what Grok describes is “problematic” and a symptom of male weakness and decline.

Here is what Grok 3 had to say about why a man who reads military history would want to play wargames:

For a man steeped in military history, particularly the naval campaigns of the Pacific Theater from 1941 to 1945, the appeal of playing board games like Carrier Battles: Philippine Sea or computer wargames like Task Force Admiral stems from a deep fascination with the strategic, tactical, and human elements of warfare. Having read extensively about the era and visited military museums, he’d be drawn to relive and reimagine the monumental challenges, heroic deeds, and technical ingenuity that defined the U.S. Navy’s struggle against the Imperial Japanese Navy (IJN). Let’s explore this through the lens of Task Force Admiral, a game that simulates carrier-based naval combat in the Pacific, and tie it to the historical context he knows so well.

The Pacific Theater and Naval Supremacy

From 1941 to 1945, the Pacific War pitted two naval powers against each other: the United States and Japan. At the outset, Japan held the stronger navy in terms of experience, doctrine, and specialized weapons systems. The IJN had battle-hardened crews from years of aggression against China, a carrier force that executed the devastating Pearl Harbor attack, and surface ships armed with the fearsome Type 93 “Long Lance” torpedo. Their Mitsubishi A6M Zero fighter outclassed early American planes like the F4F Wildcat in maneuverability and range.

Overcoming Specific Challenges

This man’s knowledge of military history would highlight the specific problems the U.S. Navy faced and overcame, many of which Task Force Admiral recreates:

  1. Cracking JN-25: Japan’s JN-25 naval code was a cryptographic fortress. American codebreakers, led by Station Hypo under Joseph Rochefort, cracked it before Midway in 1942, revealing Japanese plans and enabling a decisive ambush. In Task Force Admiral, this translates to the player leveraging intelligence to anticipate enemy movements—mirroring the real advantage that turned the tide.
  2. Countering the Zero: Early in the war, the Zero’s agility humiliated American pilots. The U.S. countered with tactics like the Thach Weave, which was invented by Jimmy Thach. This is a dog-fighting tactic where Wildcats worked in pairs to trap Zeros, and later introduced the F6F Hellcat, which outgunned and outlasted its rival. The game lets players experiment with these evolving air tactics.
  3. The Long Lance Torpedo: Japan’s oxygen-powered Type 93 torpedo had unmatched range and stealth. U.S. destroyers learned the hard way at battles like Java Sea. Countering it required better radar use and night-fighting adjustments, which players must master in Task Force Admiral’s tense surface engagements.
  4. Japanese Night Tactics: The IJN excelled at night operations, as seen at Savo Island in 1942, where they sank four Allied cruisers with minimal losses. The U.S. adapted with radar-directed gunfire and trained crews for nocturnal combat, a dynamic simulated in the game’s night missions.
  5. Kamikaze Tactics: By 1944, Japan’s desperate kamikaze attacks sank or damaged dozens of U.S. ships. The Navy countered with layered air defenses—fighters, flak, and picket destroyers—requiring precise coordination that players replicate in Task Force Admiral.
  6. Amphibious Assault Defenses: Japan fortified islands like Tarawa and Iwo Jima with bunkers and artillery. The U.S. perfected naval bombardment and Marine landings, overcoming these through sheer firepower and grit—scenarios the game challenges players to execute.
  7. Submarine Tactics (Morton and O’Kane): Submariners like Dudley “Mush” Morton of USS Wahoo and Richard “Dick” O’Kane of USS Tang crippled Japan’s merchant fleet with aggressive tactics. Their success came despite early torpedo failures, a problem players must navigate in submarine-focused titles like Silent Hunter IV.
  8. Sonar, Radar, and Mark 14 Limitations: Early sonar was rudimentary, radar was temperamental, and the Mark 14 torpedo often failed to detonate or ran erratically. Engineers fixed the Mark 14 by 1943, and radar improvements like the SG set revolutionized detection. In Task Force Admiral, players grapple with these technological growing pains.
  9. Japanese Battleship Threat: The IJN’s super-battleships, like Yamato and Musashi, with their 18.1-inch guns, outranged U.S. ships. The Navy countered with air power, sinking Musashi at Leyte Gulf in 1944 with relentless airstrikes and crippling Yamato off Okinawa in 1945. Players in Task Force Admiral must orchestrate such carrier strikes to neutralize these behemoths.
  10. Logistical Strain Across the Pacific: Operating thousands of miles from home, the U.S. Navy faced fuel and supply shortages. The solution was the underway replenishment system—fleet oilers and cargo ships refueling task forces at sea—perfected by 1943. The game subtly reflects this in resource management mechanics.

Heroic Actions and Self-Sacrifice

This man’s reading and museum visits likely ingrained tales of valor, which games let him relive:

  • Richard Best at Midway: On June 4, 1942, Lt. Cmdr. Richard Best dive-bombed the carrier Akagi, landing a fatal hit despite intense flak. His precision under pressure is a moment Task Force Admiral players can emulate.
  • Torpedo Bomber Squadrons at Midway: The sacrifice of Torpedo Squadron 8 (VT-8) from USS Hornet, along with VT-6 and VT-3, was pivotal. Flying obsolete TBD Devastators, they attacked the Japanese carriers at low altitude, drawing the Zero combat air patrol (CAP) down and expending their 20mm cannon ammo. Of VT-8’s 15 planes, only Ensign George Gay survived; VT-6 lost 10 of 14, and VT-3 lost 10 of 12. Their selfless assault left the IJN carriers vulnerable, allowing five SBD Dauntless dive bombers—including Best’s—to strike Akagi, Kaga, and Soryu, sinking three in minutes. In Task Force Admiral, players can orchestrate this desperate coordination.
  • Howard Gilmore of USS Growler: In 1943, Cdr. Gilmore ordered his sub to submerge while he remained on deck, wounded, to save his crew from a ramming Japanese gunboat. His sacrifice echoes in the game’s command dilemmas.
  • Edward “Butch” O’Hare: In 1942, O’Hare single-handedly attacked nine Japanese “Betty” bombers, downing five to protect USS Lexington. Players can channel his audacity in air combat.
  • Destroyer Escorts off Samar: In 1944’s Battle off Samar, tiny ships like USS Samuel B. Roberts charged the battleship Yamato to protect Taffy 3’s vulnerable aircraft carriers. Cdr. Ernest Evans led his destroyer against a vastly superior force, sinking a cruiser before his ship was lost.  Their self-sacrificial bravery is a highlight of Task Force Admiral’s surface battles.
  • Taffy 3’s Pilots: Outgunned aviators from escort carriers strafed Japanese battleships with empty machine guns and dropped dummy bombs, after they had exhausted their ammunition and ordnance, buying time for the carriers to retreat.
  • Eugene Fluckey of USS Barb: In 1944, Cdr. Fluckey destroyed a Japanese train by landing a shore party armed with demolition charges from his submarine —the only U.S. ground combat on Japanese soil during the war.

Why Play These Games?

For this man, wargames like Task Force Admiral offer more than entertainment—they’re a bridge to the past. First, they let him test himself against the same problems his historical heroes faced: managing carriers under kamikaze swarms, outwitting a night ambush, coordinating torpedo runs like VT-8’s, or sinking a Yamato-class titan with airpower. Unlike static history books, games demand active problem-solving, letting him ask, “Could I have done it?” Second, they honor the self-sacrificial ethos he admires—mirroring the torpedo squadrons’ doomed runs, Fluckey’s audacious raid, or Evans’ charge in interactive form. Third, they keep the memory of these feats alive in a world where such history risks fading. Board games like Carrier Battles: Philippine Sea add a tactile, social layer, while computer titles like Task Force Admiral immerse him in visuals and sound, recreating the skies and seas of World War 2. Ultimately, these games are a way to engage with his passion intellectually and emotionally, blending strategy, history, and reverence for those who shaped it.